Becoming HER

This book, "Becoming HER" is not just a self-help book but a revelation that forces us to look inside ourselves. Monica has presented her life experiences, pain, and learning with such dignity that, while reading it, it feels like she is sitting in front of you and telling you her story.

"Becoming HER" is the story of a woman who recognizes her inner strength, goes through her trauma, and then overcomes it and shows herself in her most powerful form. Monica sums up this process in three words – Heal, Embody, Radiate. These three words are the main pillars of this book. In each chapter, these three things are presented in different ways, and while reading, you feel that this is not just Monica's story but the story of every woman who wants to understand herself.

Monica's style of writing is very conversational. It seems as if she is talking to your friend – sometimes jokingly, showing anger, and sometimes taking it deeply. She writes about her personal experiences in so much detail that you can feel those moments, like when she talks about her accident – sitting in a wheelchair, the pain, and then overcoming it. Reading all this brings tears to the eyes and also gives inspiration.

Her language is bold, at times a little politically incorrect, but that is her strength. She understands the balance between #Feminism and #Masculinity without leaning too much on any side. She says that women should embrace their feminine energy, but this is not a rule book – every woman can choose her path.

A large portion of the book is about trauma. Monica writes openly about her childhood, her relationship with her parents, and her hormonal imbalances. When she talks about how childhood experiences shape our adulthood, it makes you think about your past. The way she connects her personal story to universal themes is very effective.

Another important aspect of the book is self-love. Monica emphasizes that healing is not a one-time event but a lifelong journey. She encourages women to accept themselves with all their flaws and to celebrate their uniqueness. Her message is empowering and comes from a place of deep understanding.

Overall, "Becoming HER" is a powerful and inspiring read. It is not just a book for women who have gone through trauma but for anyone who wants to reconnect with their inner self. Monica’s honesty, boldness, and vulnerability make this book special. It leaves you with a sense of hope and strength, reminding you that no matter what happens, you have the power to heal, embody, and radiate.